But I Still Love Her...
So What In The Hell Do I Do Now?"
Maybe. Forget? No way in hell. If you want to be free of
the insecurity that comes when your wife cheats, and start
enjoying the inner peace, confidence, and sanity you deserve,
this will be the most important letter you ever read...
From the desk of: Kevin Jackson
if you answer "yes" to at least one of the
you wish you could get relief from the pain of knowing
that your wife betrayed you with another man?
the fact that she lied to you, over and over, eat away
at you sometimes... and you don't know how you could ever
trust her again (even if you wanted to)?
you feel that if you could discover the real reason
why she cheated, that would help you deal with it?
you haunted by images of her with another man... images
that won't go away no matter how hard you try to
not think about them?
you worried that you may lose your wife, your marriage,
and your family... FOREVER... and you want to find a way
to stop this?
you worried that your wife's affair will hurt your kids
- even crippling them for years to come - and you're willing
to do whatever it takes to keep that from happening?
you ever have problems going to sleep, or staying asleep
at night, because the pictures of her doing things with
him won't let you rest?
you "obsess" about the affair - thinking about
the details over and over - even though you know damn
well it does no good?
you secretly worry that the other guy was "better"
than you - that your wife enjoyed having sex with him
more than with you, even if she said she didn't?
you stay up at night, still wondering how she could do
this to you?
you wish you could "magically" go back to a
time where your wife's affair never happened?
you answered "yes" to just ONE of these questions,
I can help.
me tell you why...
Own Heart Was Ripped Out When I Found Out My Wife Was Having
Sex With A Man I Had Trusted...
how do I know so much about your situation?
I've been there.
I found out my wife cheated, I felt humiliation, rage, jealousy,
embarrassment... and just plain hurt.
couldn't believe my wife could do this to me - in fact, I
never thought of my wife as the "cheating kind."
all I had done for her... after I basically had given my life
to her... this is how she repays me?
I went online and started looking for help.
all I found were web sites, articles, and ebooks that didn't
even if they LOOKED like there were written for both women
and men... I later discovered they weren't really written
for us guys... they were written for WOMEN.
do I know this?
was talking to the owner of one of these other sites, and
he told me a secret that a lot of online "affair experts"
don't want us guys to know:
85% of the people buying these programs are WOMEN!
the publishers and authors write all their stuff to make sure
they're helping their audience... which is almost entirely
leaves us guys scratching our heads, wondering why the advice
we read doesn't really "hit home" for us.
is, until now...
Not Your Fault..."
I share with you the only resource on the web - that's right,
the ONLY one - designed to help us GUYS when our wife cheats,
I want to tell you something very important and close to my
not your fault.
you ever found yourself analyzing why your wife cheated, wondering
what more you could have done to keep your wife happier and
prevented the affair?
the fact is no marriage is perfect - and no husband is perfect.
believe marriage is an oath, a commitment...
things aren't going well, you don't go out and cheat.
matter how bad things are, your wife has free will and could
have chosen not to cheat.
don't beat yourself up.
both responsible for your side of the street, so to say...
but the affair isn't your fault.
me ask you a question...
you found out your wife cheated, did you feel alone?
you feel there's not a lot of guys that are in your situation?
women go through hard emotional times - like when an affair
happens - they have no problem going to their girlfriends,
spilling the beans, and getting some support.
us guys are different.
keep our hurt feelings more to ourselves... which is great
for going out in the world and kicking ass... but not great
when it comes to going through serious emotional trauma...
we end up feeling alone.
as I began doing my own research, I discovered something I
would have never guess in a million years...
you had to guess, what percentage of marriages do you think
ready for the real answer?
almost 80% of marriages, one or both partners cheat.
the next time you're at the grocery store, at the filling
station, at the airport - hell, the next time you're anywhere
- look around at the men, and realize many of the men you
see have gone through what you're going through right now.
won't talk about it. But they've been through what you're
been through it too.
I'm trying to say here is... YOU'RE NOT ALONE.
that's an important fact to remember over and over again,
as you're dealing with the pain, the jealousy, the betrayal,
and the anger.
Wife Cheating Is More Stressful Than Going
of us guys try to "minimize" the gut-wrenching heartache
that a cheating wife makes us feel.
try to tell ourselves to just get over it - think about something
that's a recipe for disaster - and here's why:
are certain events in life that cause HUGE STRESS in our lives
- in fact, the top all-time stressful events are:
1) Death of a spouse
right. It's worse than going to jail.
other words... this is some serious sh*t.
we're in the middle of the hell of our wife's affair, it's
easy to feel like we're going to be "stuck" in the
grip of the hurt FOREVER.
can feel like every day the goal is to simply get through
it to the end. But then the night comes, and the haunting
images, and the lack of sleep... and then we get up the next
morning and repeat the same horrible cycle.
want to tell you there is hope. And you can recover 100% from
you get the right help.
I said, most books and programs out there are written primarily
for women because they make up 85% of the people who buy these
books - probably because us guys have been too stubborn to
actually reach out and get help.
your only option was to get advice secretly written for women.
been working night and day to put the finishing touches on
the very first eBook written exclusively for MEN who
are trying to survive their wife's affair and want a little
help to heal and deal with this painful situation.
called Survive Her Affair - A Man's Guide To Healing &
Dealing When Your Wife Cheats.
the first and only eBook written for MEN who are going
through the shockwave of their wife's affair.
it's the only eBook on the topic of affairs written not by
a therapist or some "expert" with no personal experience
of what it's really like, but by a guy who has gone
through it himself.
me. Kevin Jackson.
been down in the trenches with you, and I've found a way out.
aren't pie in the sky ideas - these are practical, easy to
use strategies that'll get you thinking better, feeling better,
and making better decisions as soon as you read them.
personally believe this is the best tool available to help
you heal and deal with the affair - because it's written from
a MAN'S perspective - and by a man who knows EXACTLY what
you're going through.
Just A Glimpse Of What You're Going To Learn Inside..."
of the most common and PAINFUL complaints guys have is
the haunting images of their wife with another guy. Here's
how to get these images out of your head - and enjoy peace
of mind once again (Page 44)
REAL reason why your wife cheated (Page 70)
wife lied to you to cover up her affair. Here's shocking
research that shows why women are literally BRED to lie
about affairs - and a simple trick so you can spot it
the next time any woman (including your wife) lies to
you (Page 30)
of the men I surveyed said there were warning signs. Here's
why guy don't confront the other guy as strongly as we
should before it's too late - and how to never make this
same mistake twice (Page 31)
long it'll be before you get back to "feeling normal"
again (Page 36)
you torn by the decision to either try to save the marriage,
or not? Many guys make the WRONG decision, and for the
WRONG reasons... and they don't even know it. And that
means they go on to suffer for months or even years longer
than they need to, while their whole life gets sucked
into a "tailspin." I don't want this to happen
to you. Here's how to know for sure whether you should
stay or go, and what the right reasons are for YOU in
your unique situation (Page 105)
simple trick to take the edge off the pain INSTANTLY (you'll
be kicking yourself that you didn't do this one sooner!)
you want to save your marriage, here's why proving to
your wife that you'll be a "better" husband
may make you lose your marriage instead of save it...
and what to do instead (Page 107)
reason us guys have a harder time dealing with affairs
than women - and what to do about it (Page 16)
much of the "details" of the affair do you really
need to know, to heal and move on? Getting the wrong kind
of details can actually make your pain WORSE. Here's what
to do (Page 38)
you have kids like I do, you're #1 priority is to protect
them. Sadly, affairs can stress kids out and leave lasting
impressions that hurt them long term. Here are 5 things
you should do to protect your kids from the dangers of
the affair (Page 51)
your wife is the one responsible for her affair - no matter
how she tries to blame you for it (Page 73)
Good Husband Trap" - what it is, why it sets up us
guys for heartbreak in our marriage, and how you can get
yourself out of it IMMEDIATELY (Page 76)
guys worry that their wife enjoyed sex with the other
guy more than with them. Here's how to stop this "sexual
insecurity" dead in its' tracks (Page 41)
#1 factor that determines who a wife will cheat with (Hint:
It's not looks, money, or fame... and once you know it,
you'll have a deeper understanding of exactly why your
wife cheated) (Page 55)
has more power in the marriage - you or your wife? Discover
how this played a part in her infidelity (Page
"myth" that society brainwashes us with... that
made it easier for your wife to cheat (Page 75)
you want to get relief from the pain of the affair, you
need to stop seeing yourself as a victim. Here's a new
perspective that'll give you power and control over the
situation, from this day forward (Page 81)
Women will lie when you ask them for the details about
the affair. Here's why, and how you can tell for sure
she's telling the truth. This will go a long way in giving
you some much needed peace of mind (Page 110)
to do if your wife doesn't have regret or remorse for
cheating on you (Page 107)
some men are driven to murder, suicide, or both when their
wife cheats - and how to make sure you never get on that
path (Page 12)
to avoid 5 deadly, common mistakes that will kill any
hopes saving your marriage and your family (If you already
did one, it's may not be too late, but you need to know
what it is so you can stop doing it, right now) (Page
your marriage really be saved? Should you save it? (Page
5 predictable "phases" every man goes though
when they find out their wife cheated. Knowing where you're
at, and what's coming next, will give you a plan of exactly
what you need to do next to stop the pain and get control
over the situation (Page 23)
huge mistake I personally made you must avoid... when
it comes to hearing the details of the affair from your
wife (This one caused me literally MONTHS of suffering
that didn't need to happen - save yourself from this)
top-secret "mental shifts" that will give you
an immediate sense of relief from the pain of the affair
to do if your wife is still seeing the other guy (and
the "weird" instinctual drive inside of us that
can make us be more attracted to our wife when there's
another guy in the picture) (Page 49)
- It sounds crazy, but investing too much in the marriage
- going out of your way to do things for your wife - can
backfire and make it MORE LIKELY that she'll go with another
man. Here's why (Page 76)
common it is for a wife to cheat with a friend, neighbor,
or someone else you know... and why (Page 54)
you know the other guy, should you confront him or not?
What are your options? (Page 55)
things you can do starting right NOW to start feeling
physically better (even if you're sleeping like crap,
aren't sleeping, and have lost or gained a lot of weight
since finding out) (Page 64)
5 stages of "grief" you will go through as you
heal from your wife's affair (Page 68)
Could you dating another woman make your wife more interested
in staying in the marriage? Find out. (Page 108)
"I Can't Live Without Her Syndrome" - what it
is, why it causes so much pain, and how to avoid it so
you can get the power back in your life (Page
you decide you can't continue the marriage, here are the
secrets on how to handle the transition from married to
single... so you get your self-esteem back as quickly
as possible, don't regret the past, and start building
Chapter 2 of your life with confidence (Page 119)
little known facts that, once you know them, will immediately
begin to give you the peace of mind you are searching
for (Page 15)
To Tell If My Book Is Right For You..."
book isn't for every guy.
your wife didn't cheat, and you're looking for general marriage
advice, this eBook isn't for you.
you were the one who cheated in your marriage, and now you're
looking for a tool to get your wife to take you back, then
this book isn't for you.
you're looking for ways to get revenge on your wife to get
back at her for what she's done... you're not going to find
on the other hand -
you're sick and tired of the feelings of heartache and betrayal...
the images in your head won't let you rest...
you desperately want to save your marriage and you're afraid
it's too late... or you don't know if you should save the
marriage, but you want to make sure you don't regret whatever
choice you make...
you have kids and you want to protect them for suffering for
poor choices your wife made...
if you just want to make sense of it all and get your life
back to normal...
then my book is precisely for YOU.
it's the only tool specifically created to help GUYS LIKE
YOU who are going through this.
it's written by a man who has personal experience with your
pain... me... and I want to share my hard-earned lessons to
help you get through this.
Is This Worth To You?
how much the pain from your wife's affair is costing you right
would it be worth to you to get the images out of your
would it be worth to you to get a good night's sleep
would it be worth to have peace of mind again?
would it be worth to save your marriage?
would it be like to know for certain the right thing to
do for your family?
guys would say that getting these results would be priceless.
it's hard to put a pricetag on "priceless"... so
here's another way to look at it:
relationship ebook systems out there go for $197.
since I personally know the pain you're in - and I want to
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thing I've noticed is that guys these days do a lot of reading
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I LOVE listening to them in my car - makes me feel like I'm
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you're one of those guys - like I was - who thinks about the
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what I mean -
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Choice Is Now Yours...
can continue doing what you're doing, or if you just found
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say ignorance is bliss - but not when you're dealing with
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