Everything you thought you knew about your wife, marriage - hell, about LIFE itself - it's all up in the air.
You're emotionally devastated.
It's the most F*CKED UP you've ever been in your entire life... pardon my french.
I know because I'm right with you, brother.
I've been through it myself.
When I found out my wife had sex with another guy... man, did I suffer. And man did I make some BIG TIME mistakes...
And looking back, I think I have some perspective that I can share with you... that'll help you avoid the common mistakes guys make when they find out their wife screwed - or is screwing - some other guy.
(Or some other asshole, that's probably a more accurate description, yes?)
When most guys are in the stage I call "Stage 2: Shock and Awe" (I've discovered 4 distinct stages men go through) their emotions are all over the place.
Which is totally understandable.
Hell, how could we not be screwed up on the inside when going through this crap?
The problem comes when we start making DECISIONS during this time when we're all screwed up.
Decisions like whether to stay or go.
Decisions like starting to drink more than you normally do.
Decisions like how to handle your anger or pain.
You get my point.
It's easy to get sucked into seeing the world through the emotionally-charged "lens" we wear during this time traumatic time.
It's an easy mistake to make... but deadly.
We need to practice stepping back for a second, realize we're not thinking straight, and commit to ourselves not to make any big decisions until our feelings start to even out.
When you do, you'll avoid turning your wife's affair into an event that causes your entire life to go into a tailspin. (which is what most guys do)
Instead, you'll make decisions when you're back on solid ground in your inner world...
... and those decisions will be damn-smart.
So right now, take 10 seconds and say to yourself, "I'm emotionally jacked up right now, so I commit to myself to do the thing a mature man would do... and not make any big decisions for now."
Listen, I put together a special report that really helps guys in your situation. It's called "The 7 Biggest Mistakes Men Make When Wives Cheat." It goes into way more detail than this article - you can grab it for free below...
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